I Need To Figure Out

“I need to figure out the secret. 

I need to work out how to keep things flying back to me 

instead of always flying away.”

~ Carol Rifka Brunt, Tell the Wolves I'm Home

I Hate The Way

“I hate the way, once you start to know someone, 

care about them, their behavior can distress you, 

even when it's unreasonable and not your fault, 

even if you were really trying to be careful, tactful.”

~ Tanith Lee, Wolf Star

Love Is Giving Up Control

“Love is giving up control. 

It’s surrendering the desire to control the other person.

 The two—love and controlling power over the other person—are mutually exclusive. 

If we are serious about loving someone, 

we have to surrender all the desires within us to manipulate the relationship.”

~ Rob Bell, Sex God: Exploring the Endless Connections

 Between Sexuality and Spirituality